And they all talk to Mai too. Not only do they make Zuko's actions Mai's responsibility, when she has no power to control him, but they act like Zuko can't decide how he's going to act themselves.

Hah, Zuko's going to prove all his docs wrong and live to like, eighty. THe Fire Nation court would eagerly try such a thing. Zuko may have many of the commoners, but the military leadership and the rich nobles hate him. But if they tried, Aang would have something to say about it. *snickers...*