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attackfish ([personal profile] attackfish) wrote2010-09-04 12:41 pm
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Bittercon: Rocking the Cradle- Motherhood in Science Fiction and Fantasy

Motherhood holds an enormous place in modern society. Most women become mothers at some point in their lives. Yet even as more and more women become prominent as both sci-fi fantasy writers or as fantasy and sci-fi protagonists, fewer and fewer mothers are showcased in modern sci-fi and fantasy.

Part of this comes undoubtedly from the traditional cultural devaluing of women’s roles (such as motherhood) in the western society from which a lot of modern fantasy springs. Also, until recently, women were not themselves common in fantasy, and in much modern fantasy, women still find themselves only in limited roles. One of those limited roles was as either love interest of the hero (including sometimes mother of his children, which would necessitate the male protagonist being a father) or the hero’s mother. In this role, motherhood made the woman into a symbol of positive domesticity, something the hero yearns to return to, or a stifling domesticity that the hero wishes to escape from. This older expression of both femininity and motherhood is losing ground, but as it does, the number of mothers in sci-fi and fantasy has begun to shrink.

As more and more women become the stars of fantasy novels, will more and more of them be mothers? Or interact with mothers? At the moment, it doesn’t seem like they are. There are notable and popular exceptions (Bella Swan in the Twilight novels, for example) that show that there may be a market for that type of narrative, however.

Part of the absence of motherhood, especially among the protagonists of sci-fi and fantasy stories might lie in the appeal of such novels as an escape from the everyday world. Many women experience an enormous about of pressure to become mothers, or to value children, and consciously or unconsciously wish to escape the cult of motherhood in their fiction. Part of it is that motherhood sucks up so much time and energy that writing a protagonist as a mother presents a real challenge.

Then there is the evil mother. Fantasy especially partly has its roots in European folk tales, many of them have the mother as a menacing character, one of the enemies that must be faced and overcome.

Also there is Young Adult and Children’s sci-fi and fantasy, where the absence of protective parents, especially mothers, is a whole nother issue with its own reasons and purposes.

The question is, do readers and writers want to see more of motherhood? Do readers and writers want to see a change in how motherhood is portrayed, or is the way things are done now the ideal situation?

Written for [livejournal.com profile] bittercon the online convention for those of us who can't make it to any other kind, on a topic stolen from a panel at the 2010 Worldcon.

[identity profile] amyraine.livejournal.com 2011-07-19 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for linking me to this essay!

Since you mentioned good ol' Bella, I note that while she became a mother, her own mother was portrayed very unflatteringly, or so I hear. I haven't read the books so my knowledge of them is all second-hand.

I want to see more mothers as protagonists, but I'd be happy having more books/shows/films where the protagonists have strong mothers. They exist, but I always want more.

[identity profile] attackfish.livejournal.com 2011-07-19 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, she was. She was flighty and irresponsible, and Bella goes to live with her father, who doesn't parent her at all, and who she keeps house for, but that's okay, because bumbling dads are cool.

I read the first one, sustained myself thinking "When I finish I can tear this apart on my blog," and then I finished and couldn't stand to touch it long enough to critique it.

I want to see both. At the moment, I'm writing a protagonist who becomes a teen mother and has a close relationship with her mother. It's fun. Now let's see if I can get a publisher.

[identity profile] amyraine.livejournal.com 2011-07-19 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
I hope you do!

Whether you do, or you decide to try self-publishing instead, let me know so I can go buy a copy.

[identity profile] attackfish.livejournal.com 2011-07-19 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks, I will.