attackfish

I completely agree with you about Ilah having a string of miscarriages after Iroh was born and that she died due to birth complications. And that Iroh believes that he failed Ozai. Though my headcanon holds that he and Ozai were never very close as he was off to war during most of Ozai's childhood and that when he was back in the Fire Nation, his duties as Crown Prince and to his own family were more of a priority so he never spent much time with Ozai.